Video chat blackmail: what to do if it happens

How the scam works

Sextortion is blackmail using intimate images or video. On video chat it usually goes like this:

1. A friendly, attractive stranger starts flirting. Their video may actually be a pre-recorded clip.
2. They encourage you to undress or do something intimate on camera, often after "going first" themselves.
3. They secretly record you, then reveal they have your social media or contacts.
4. They demand money, gift cards or crypto, threatening to send the recording to your family, friends or employer.

It's organised, it's a numbers game, and the scammers do this to many people every day. It is not your fault.

What to do if you're being blackmailed

1. Don't pay. Paying rarely ends it. It marks you as someone who pays, and demands usually increase.
2. Stop all contact. Don't negotiate, argue or plead. Block them on every platform after you've saved evidence.
3. Keep evidence. Screenshot the messages, usernames, profile links and payment details they sent. Don't delete the conversation yet.
4. Lock down your accounts. Make social media private, hide your friends list, and check who can message you.
5. Report it. Report the account to the platform, and report the crime to the police. In the US, you can also report to the FBI at ic3.gov.
6. Get the images blocked. Adults can use StopNCII.org to help stop intimate images being shared on participating platforms. Under 18s can use NCMEC's Take It Down.
7. Talk to someone. A friend, family member or support line. Shame is what scammers rely on; telling someone takes their power away.

Warning signs

• A very attractive stranger becomes flirty within seconds.
• Their video looks too polished, loops, or never quite reacts to you.
• They want to move to another app immediately.
• They ask for your Instagram, Facebook or friends list early on.
• They push you to undress, especially by "going first".

How to protect yourself

• Never do anything on camera you wouldn't want recorded. On random video chat, assume you could be.
• Don't share social media handles with strangers. That's how scammers find your contacts.
• Keep your friends and follower lists private.
• Use a webcam cover when you're not chatting.
• On Random Video Chat, nudity is against our Community Guidelines. Report anyone who pushes for it.

For broader tips, read our random video chat safety guide.

Frequently asked questions

Sources

• StopNCII.org
• NCMEC: Take It Down
• FBI Internet Crime Complaint Center (IC3)